Welcome Home, Col. Joseph Christiano

In 1970 people who didn’t want us to forget those men who were POW/MIA (Prisoners of War or Missing in Action)  in Vietnam started selling metal bracelets containing the names of servicemen who were in one of those categories and the date they went missing. In each case, the family of the missing man gave permission to have a bracelet made with his name on it. The idea was to wear the bracelet until the man came home, one way or another. After the war ended most people gradually quit wearing them and they disappeared into waste baskets or sock drawers, often to be forgotten and never seen again. A small number of people kept wearing them in honor and respect of those men, and the many others who served.

I never bought a bracelet because where I worked at the time they were seen as a “political statement against the war”, which never made sense to me. State employees were not permitted to wear anything that would do so at work. One of my brothers, Irv Lester, purchased two bracelets in 1970 and always wore them. The man on one of the bracelets, Capt. Michael Chwan, who was shot down near Hanoi on 9-30-65, had his remains identified in 1985, and he was buried in Arlington. The original idea was to return the bracelets to the man or his family when they were returned. However, his family didn’t want them back, so Irv kept wearing his.

The other bracelet bore the name of Lt. Col. Joseph Christiano (promoted while MIA to Colonel), who was shot down on 12-24-65, Christmas Eve, while flying on a mission over Laos. Since we were never officially at war with Laos, and there was no treaty to allow us to look for remains, it was many years before any crash sites were investigated in Laos. Earlier investigation of the site where “Spooky”, their AC47D gunship, went down were unsuccessful, but finally remains were found in 2011 and definitely identified in 2012. The remains of Col. Joseph Christiano and his 5 crew members were buried together in a single casket in Arlington. However, I didn’t learn of the identification and burial until about a month ago.

This is especially important to me because of the bracelets that my brother Irv wore. In 2005 Irv had surgery for bladder cancer and I was with him in California at that time. The surgical team said that the bracelets needed to be removed for surgery, but I finally convinced them how important they were to him and that they really had to stay on. They wrapped them in gauze and tape so there would be no danger of shock or infection and he went to the operating room with them on. They were still there when he came back out. In 2006 Irv was in Chicago and dying of the cancer, which had metastasized to his lungs and brain. I knew the two bracelets were going to his two adult children. I copied the information from the bracelets and got a tattoo of them on my right wrist. I came back to his apartment and told him that when he couldn’t wear the bracelets any more I’d wear them. He let me know in very colorful language that I wasn’t getting his bracelets, but that Eric and Danielle were. I pulled up my sleeve and showed him the new ink. We laughed together and cried together, and hugged for a long time, talking about friends who we’d lost there, friends who came home whole, and those who came home damaged in mental and physical ways.


The bracelets will obviously be on my body until they throw my ass in the fire and place my ashes in the sacred ground of the Memorial Rose Garden at Grace Episcopal Church here in St. George. I’m often asked about them, and, sadly, few people remember when many people wore them. Of course to younger people the Vietnam War is ancient history, something they read about in a text book, as I learned about the War to End All Wars that I wrote about yesterday.

I wear the bracelets to honor my brother’s faithfulness and to honor all who have served in the military in peace and in war.

God Bless all who have served, and do serve our country.


9 thoughts on “Welcome Home, Col. Joseph Christiano

  1. Just found this story – I wore Joseph Christino’s bracelet for many years. In 1998, I was privileged to visit the Vietnam Wall and show my children his name. All these years later, I was still look for information about him and was glad to see him brought home.

  2. I, too, have Col.Joseph Christiano’s bracelet. I had no information about him. I plan on keeping this bracelet for as long as I live. I am saddened to hear that his family had lost him. God bless all of our Soldiers.

  3. I have Col. Joseph Christiano’s bracelet as well. It snapped in half but I taped it back together, and plan to keep it as long as I live as well. I knew that Col. Joseph Christiano never came home because I watched the news as a teen to see the servicemen, whose names were on the bracelets worn by my friends, return home. I’ve often wondered about my soldier. Today, December 7th, a friend shared that her father became a POW during WWII on this day and she shared his story. Curious, I searched for my guy, Lt. Col. Joseph Christiano and found your post. It is a relief to know he finally was returned home and if I ever make it to Washington, D.C. again, I will make a point to find the grave where he and his crew members are buried and his name on the Vietnam Memorial Wall.
    Thank you for sharing this story.

  4. I too have Lt Col Christian O’s bracelet, along with Major Joseph Bors and Capt Richard Elzinga. Thank you for sharing this story.

  5. I also wore Lt Col Joseph Christiano’s bracelet until it broke in half. I kept it in my jewelry box. I went to school with one of his sons. We were from the same town so periodically, there were news stories about him and the family until they finally brought him home.

  6. I to wore Col Christianos bracelet. Found him on VN wall. To this day I remembered his name. Lost the bracelet but always in my heart. Rip z.Col

  7. Today is Memorial Day, a day of reflection, memories, and family! Your story is very personal and touching to me and my family. It brought several tears to my eyes to know that you and your brother honored our fallen in such a lasting and loving way! Thank you for always remembering! Elaine Christiano, Daughter of Col.Joseph Christiano

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